Luckily, I have some silicone-coated nylon similar to Jami's sample, and some Odyssey. Both of them are stretchier across the width of the cloth than across its length. This is not surprising, as the warp will be under some tension during the weaving process, and will stay straighter than the weft, which must crimp somewhat as it goes under and over the warp. The Odyssey is about three times less stretchy across its width than the silicone-coated nylon, which is not surprising either, as it's about three times heavier.
There are some sailcloths that are deliberately made with different characteristics in each direction, for specific uses, so this "unbalanced" kind of cloth is not unknown in sailmaking. It does mean, though, that you have to be very careful about way the cloth is laid. Those unbalanced Dacron sailcloths are woven with a heavier weft than warp, so that the cloths can be laid perpendicular to the leech (for reasons specific to bermudan sails). We have the opposite situation, as we are using cloths that are not specifically intended for sailmaking, and do not have the benefit of a weave that is ideal for being laid perpendicular to the leech; in a junk sail, made with fabrics like this, the cloths have to be laid vertically, parallel with the leech. If the cloths are laid horizontally, there will be stretch inside the stiffer tabling, resulting in a "hooked" leech which is very bad for performance.
I've noticed this kind of thing happening in photos of some sails made of Odyssey with plain barrel-cut horizontally cut panels, and wondered why. Now I think we have the answer - different amounts of stretch in each direction.
And so, I will continue to advocate vertically laid cloths, parallel to the leech.
To come back to your query, Jami, this ultralight cloth is not ruled out completely, so long as you pay careful attention to the way the cloth is laid. And don't mix up cloths that are laid in different directions. At 3.40 euros a metre, this is the least expensive material you're going to find, so it has to be worth considering, for a trailer sailer that is not going to cover huge distances. Perhaps longevity is going to depend more on good craftsmanship than on cloth weight?