Poor David - how frustrating for you. People here in NZ can't believe me when I tell them that sailing from Morecambe Bay is a real commitment, each time you go out. If you decided you've made a mistake and want to go back home, even if you could sail against the ebb, you'll be lucky if there's any harbour there when you get back! I reckon the 2 - 3 metre tides we get around Godzone are perfect: enough to add interest and enable you to scrub the boat, but not enough seriously to disrupt things. Though they can be pretty fast running in places.
Believe it or not, someone once told me - in all seriousness - that Morecambe Bay is a fabulous cruising ground. However, for someone like you, David, who is prepared to make an effort, it is a fine base for Ireland, Scotland, Scilly, and many other places.