Richard
Your drawing confuses me a little. I see now that it is a twin keel version. In addition it appears to have a somewhat different superstructure than the on I found on Sailboat-data.
Another thing is that you have shifted the CE quite far aft compared to the Bermuda rig. Unless the boat carries a lee helm with the Bermuda rig, I would warn a bit against that. In addition, these boat appears to have a shallow and not very big rudder. In that case I suggest you keep the chord of the sail down on 4.5m or less, like the one David has suggested. The shorter chord reduces the increase in weather helm as you bear away onto a reach or run. I had a wide-chord sail on my Johanna, but got away with it because of the big, efficient and semi-balanced rudder.
Now I have added an alternative mast to the AR=2.10 sailplan (33.6sqm): By giving it a moderate aft rake of 1.6deg, the partners can be moved to the foredeck where it is much easier to install. As the sail itself will not be moved forward, this change will not rob any more deck space than with the plumb mast. The CG of the mast will only move a little forward. If you can get the weight of the mast down to 2.5% of the boat’s displacement, you should be all right.

Handling forces:
I would not be worried about the sheet forces, even with low-balance sails. I am far from big and strong, but sheeting my Ingeborg’s 35sqm sail is no big deal. It pays to lead the sheet forward to let a genoa winch on the cockpit coaming serve as a snubber winch. This lets you sit down and haul very effectively.
I promise you one thing: If you can hoist the sail, then you surely can reef it as well! Hoisting is like cycling uphill, while reefing is like rolling downhill - easy.
Sewing method:
Frankly, I think (surprise, surprise) that my Amateur Method B of assembling the batten panels is very easy. Moreover, if one needs to replace a worn batten pocket later, then all one has to do is to rip a single zigzag seam. Even better, one can easily sew on the new pocket without needing to roll up half of the sail to make it pass under the sewing machine’s arm. Check “The Cambered Panel Junk Rig”, Chapter 5.
Hope some of this makes sense...
Arne