Hi Jason,
I see from your profile that Etoile de Sud is a 34ft Benford Dory, similar to Badger, and therefore there will be two nearly equal sails of about 300 sq ft each. I think you are looking for 8in x .25in wall tubes. Greater thickness is not really desirable, as it is better to increase the diameter rather than increase the thickness.
I see that several US flagpole suppliers offer a "hurricane" pole at 44ft overall length, 8in butt, 3.5in truck, .25in wall, material 6063T6, and I think one of these suppliers should be able to satisfy your requirement, if you contact them about supplying a bare pole. One such is http://www.flagpolewarehouse.com/proddetail.php?prod=w323170
I would trim the top to 4in diameter, first, them trim the bottom to your required length.