Peter, You might also have a look at "junk information" - "useful links" - "sails, masts and gear". Scroll down and you'll find a database showing what other members are using for masts and links to suppliers of flagpoles and lighting columns in Australia, N America and Europe.
I'm UK based, also researching this area at the moment and wondering whether lamp posts need additional reinforcement at the partners to make them suitable as masts. I'll be grateful myself for any advice on this.
Looking at the size and weight of your boat, I think I'd go for a steel mast rather than aluminium. It may be worth talking to Paul Fay, who has steel masts in his schooner Ti Gitu, supplied by a lighting column manufacturer. He reckons the weight is about the same as solid wood masts of equivalent strength.