Hey a Daniel! Hope all is well...
We had this debate out sailing the other day. We decided, since we have a balancing jib, to reef foresail first. My dear mate knows if things get weird, to steer directly into the wind and we can then sort it out in irons, and I'd rather have weather helm in that case. The jib out there can be backed to swing us back out of irons.
She did discover a Navy move the other day when, instead of tacking like planned, we had too much lee helm and she took us all the way 'round and we ended up on the preplanned other tack. There's a name for that....and we do it now and then.