Robert,
I’ve yet to see a stayed mast for a Bermudan rig, which can be used as an un-stayed mast for a junk rig or cat rig.
An un-stayed mast must be much stronger against bending at deck level than a stayed mast. I suggest you make a new mast and then try to sell the old rig. I’ve been able to sell some of my old Marconi masts (and sails) for real money.
I would look for aluminium tubes of Ø125-150mm and wall thickness of 4-5mm, and either make the mast from two tubes or as a hybrid aluminium-wood job, which I have used a couple of times now ( http://goo.gl/WE36w3 ). Try to keep the weight of the mast at (or below) 3% of the displacement of the vessel (˂54kg)
You may also be lucky and find a lamp post of suitable size.
Happy New Year and good luck!
Arne