Fasten the lifting rope at any convenient point down near to the heel of the mast.
At the point where the spreaders would have been (or any point which is above the centre of gravity) you need a loose loop around the mast and lifting rope, so the mast is now effectively in a sling. A half hitch in the lifting rope would do it, but you have to arrange things so it can all slide down easily when you have finished. The crane hook, of course, has to be higher than this point, but does not have to be as high as the full height of the mast. I used to lift yacht masts frequently when I had a hiab truck and I just want to say be careful though and make sure the loop is sufficiently above the centre of gravity because when you lift the mast it will not be absolutely vertical and any halyards which swing out to one side can unbalance the mast if you are close to the balance point. You should have a tail rope on the heel anyway, and a second person standing by to help if necessary.
I once had a mast lean slightly one way and the weight of all the rigging and halyards out to one side was enough to capsize it - it very quickly went through 180 degrees, fell out of the sling, landed on its head and fell down with a crash, luckily between another boat and a group of gaping bystanders. That's why, if you are lifting with a crane, it is a good idea to have a second person on the end of a rope controlling the heel, and just take it carefully and you'll be OK. I expect your crane driver will know all that, anyway.
(If you have a tall mast and a low crane you can actually lift from a point lower than the CoG - provided you have a GOOD person controlling the heel. But I don't recommend it and your mast will not be that high anyway.)