The Pardeys recommend a bridle on the parachute anchor, led back to a primary winch in the cockpit. That keeps the vessel at an angle of 30 - 45 degrees to wind and wave. They have also sometimes left their trysail hoisted. With the helm lashed down there is much less strain on the rudder. I noticed though, in very severe weather during their Cape Horn passage, that they did not deploy it. I have also heard of numerous people not being able to get it up again, though that has happened with larger vessels and series drogues too. The only time I put out a drogue, (in the same stormy autumn that Roger Taylor was crossing the Tasman in 1974 aboard Roc), my vessel, Poeme, continued to lie ahull but was held into the crests and took far heavier blows from breaking crests, so I pulled it in again. The wind was independently verified as blowing at 70 - 80 knots. I was 22, on my first passage and have often reflected on what I could have done better. Perhaps a storm jib sheeted flat to keep the bows off. I was too scared to sit in the cockpit and steer downwind and my homemade windvane was useless. Perhaps my drogue, just a 100m 25mm dia warp, towed in a bight, did not have sufficient drag.
There is also some danger in running too fast, even with several crew to steer. In the Southern Ocean in 1980, enroute from New Zealand to Tahiti on the 55 foot, 32 ton schooner, Ishmael, we ran under bare poles in a severe blow with huge breaking seas. We prepared a drogue with tyre and chains but never deployed it. The three of us hand steered under bare poles at 7 knots and nearly pitchpoled on one wave. I was steering at the time, standing at the wheel, and was thrown off my feet. The bowsprit and jibboom, 22 feet long, and 15 feet of foredeck up to the foremast were buried in the trough as the ship came to a shuddering halt. We hung there for what seemed like an eternity, then the bows reared up, sending tons of water aft and the schooner was flung onto her beam ends, then almost as far the other way, each time bringing lots of green water across the decks. Down below, the bilge water was flung up into the accommodations, ruining my camera and soaking my pilot berth (five feet above the sole) with filthy, diesel soaked muck.
I intend sailing Arion back to Tahiti before I die and often wonder how I will cope with such a storm in a small boat. Hopefully my JSD will be the answer but until I deploy it I won't really know. It is always fascinating to hear of other sailors' heavy weather experiences. I am also finding a lot of food for thought in Roger Taylor's books about the heavy weather handling of small yachts under junk rig. I am a bit astonished, and encouraged, to discover how well Ming Ming could lie to under one or two panels of sail, with the windvane set at 40 degrees and the sail well eased, just nosing up into it, in moderate gales (force 7 - 8).