Slieve, thanks for the observations and also the help you gave along the way.
On the subject of the sling point, I put it there because there was no room to put it anywhere else due to my using a sleeve all along the yard. But during my 1st sail, I realized that there were a lot of diagonal creases from upper front to rear being caused by both the imbalance from front to rear of the sail and also being caused by the downward pull of the sheets.
So to counteract that, I ran a line from front to back on the yard allowing me to move the sling point further back using the line. I also rigged up a yard peaking halyard to peak up the yard and allow the camber to develop to the designed batten rise angle and help remove those diagonal creases. This can just about be seen in the sailing photo (3rd sail) and seemed to work quite well. It needs to be tidied up though, and made stronger.
On the 2nd point, of the battens bending, I hadn't noticed it at all while I was sailing, and I was looking for bending. The sailing shot was a frame-grab from the GoPro video camera I was wearing on my head. I had just released the mainsheet as I was about to capsize due to a big gust, so everything looks a bit messy.
The GoPro has a very wide angle of view (170 degrees) and is prone to a bit of "fisheye", I checked a few other frames on the video where the power wasn't on and there appears to be some "bending" in these as well. So maybe it's just the "fisheye" effect. I hope that's all it is. But maybe they are bending. If that's the case, unfortunately for me, it's out with the wallet for bigger battens and the sewing machine again.
The dinghy has now been put away for the winter, so I won't know until next spring.
Will keep you posted as to what happens and thanks again, Slieve. I definitely couldn't have done it without your advice and encouragement.
PS: while I haven't get the upwind performance I hoped for so far, (more experience and experimentation needed), the downwind is great. Very fast and stable too.
Regards, Dave D.