Thanks, interesting and informative replies.
I did something of a test last week; i charged up the battery fully using the mains and smart charger, then ran all my interior lights (48 LEDs overall), charged the iPad and left it running with Navionics open, charged up the handheld VHF.
Over a 48 hour period the battery went from 13.6 volts down to 11.5 volts. The VHF needed to be charged 3 times over the period when left always on, and the iPad worked for only about 7 hours before i needed to plug it in to charge, then, with Navionics open and on screen, it didn't actually charge up, just held station at 20% battery, i.e. if running the thing full time it seems to need 0.9 amps charging full time too (and yes, i do have the special 3 amp cig lighter charging thingy). It does however charge up the battery when the screen is turned off, so i guess while sailing i might let it go into the 'lock' screen and only wake it up every 20 minutes or so, depending on the hazards in the neighbourhood.
Interesting, i think 48 hours of battery life in 'sailing' mode with everything on is bit of a narrow margin, so i'll get another battery, keeping the 60ah one as 'reserve'.
I'm hoping to get away with 100 watts solar. I actually went ahead and ordered the 50 watt panel thinking 'what the hell, i can always buy another' but the seller got back to me saying they were out of stock, and would i like the 100 watt panel for the same price? So i have a 100 watt panel coming this week, and i'll just have to find a way to fit the damn thing on the cabin top.
I like listening to the radio but i don't have one, i use internet radio ( www.tunein.com is my favourite for now). When in a wireless area i use the wifi, but it works just dandy on the phone too using 3G. Doesn't seem to draw too much power or even conume too many of my gigs. Natuarlly it won't work when not connected to either wifi or mobile phone towers.
I also subscribe to a bunch of podcasts, BBC mostly.