Hi Marcus
Just some general comments.
There has to be harmony between accommodation requirements, mast position and type of rig (type of single-masted rig = amount of sail forward of the mast: “aerodynamic balance”).
But the geometric centre of the sail has to go where it has to go.
(The balance of a boat is not just a function of the (so-called) “C of E” – the amount of heel often also plays a part which is why it is not unusual for a vessel to develop a lot of weather helm when heeling to a breeze, remedied by reducing\ sail, sometimes in an unintuitive way, with regard to which sails are reduced (main or fore). So I am not sure that I agree with your reasoning. If the boat does not balance well under the current rig that is another matter, and can be taken into account).
To put a SJR with its geometric centre well-forward of where the BM centre was, could be a mistake. Without proper drawings its hard to say, but the “sail imposed on photograph” looks a little too far forward to me.
Eye-balling a photograph can be deceptive and I guess you are on the spot to make the best judegement, but I would be a little bit worried.
You have already reduced the balance down to 30% and anything less I would suggest makes SJR marginally not worth considering. Also, with SJR, you don’t have much flexibility. There is little margin for error, because with SJR you can’t really decide later to alter the rake of the mast, or sling the sail a little fore or aft if it proves necessary to adjust that balance.
The geometric centre of the sail has to go where it has to go. The designer of the sail can advise where that will be, in relation to the geometric centre of the existing BM sail. (In the case of SJR, the two centres will be the about the same, or close to it. With a contiguous sail, the centres might be different, others can advise.)
I would suggest that if you have decided on a SJR sloop, with its high balance requirement, then your mast position has to be determined by that decision, not by accommodation requirements or wishful thinking.
On the other hand, if you have decided first where the mast has to go, then the aerodynamic balance of the sail plan (15%? 20%? 25%?, 30%? 35%?) has to be determined by that decision. If the mast is too far forward for a SJR, then you might need to consider a lower balance type of sail (not SJR) or, alternatively, if you are determined to have a SJR main, and it is too far forward, than you might need to consider adding a mizzen mast and having a ketch or yawl rig.
Summary: if mast placement is a primary requirement, then perhaps you need to keep an open mind as regards the type of rig
PS the mast sounds good. I wish we could get tapered tubes here in NZ. I would go for the longer mast every time, having experienced the difficulty of a mast slightly too short. Its always easier to cut a bit off the bottom later, than add a bit to the top!