Nice initiative David!
Horst, I haven't decided on a specific BMS yet but in important thing to look out for (if it applies to your cruising ground) is that it has a low temperature cut-off (usually configured around 5 deg C) as LiFePO4 cells are damaged if charged below freezing. You can test if it works by putting the temperature sensor in ice cold water and measure whether the charging stops.
An alternative to low-temp cutoff on the BMS would be to have it on the charge controller instead, if solar is your only power source. For example Victron sells separate temperature sensors that you can hook up to their products. That said I think it's more sensible to have it on the BMS level so that you're protected whatever charging method you use.
And it's obviously worth being skeptic about super cheap products. There are a lot of good independent reviews of solar equipment (battery cells, BMS's, solar panels etc) on Will Prowse's channel. Electricseas.org as you mention is a good resource as well, many interesting project threads to read through, and the article you linked to seems like a good read, thanks!
I'll try to post here when I figure out what I'm going to buy and why. So far, in addition to the cells, I've also ordered a 24V to 12V converter.