I think some of your problems derive from having 22 tonnes of very stiff boat, that will not relieve stresses on the rig by heeling or accelerating. Pacific Spray, it seems, is going to need spars to scantlings somewhat in excess of PJR recommendations.
There isn't a great deal of recent big-boat experience to quote from - not that I can recall, anyway. Bernard Holland, in his article on Planesong (another Spray) in the last e-supplement, reported GRP pultruded tubular battens failing by being squashed elliptical against the mast, but there's no mention of tube size. Perhaps you could contact him and ask.
I like David Thatcher's method of using light, straight-grained wood with uni-directional fibre reinforcement. In view of my experience with the too-soft aluminium alloy tube locally available, this might be the best way to get robust battens, more resistant to crushing and to unfair loadings.