I can see your point, Jami.
I am in a similar situation, but for the all-wooden masts I paid a boatbuilder to do the difficult bits, and only did the glassing and painting myself.
Now I looked up that aluminium flagpole at 145 x 2.8mm.
Its strength (max bending moment) depends on the kind of alloy used as well.
If it is 6060-T6 at 150MPa, its yield strength should be 667kpm.
If it is 6082-T6 at 250MPa, it yield strength should be 1112kpm.
Yesterday I guessed the righting moment of the Gallion 22 to be around 681kpm
(Mr=Disp. x Beam x 0.20). This is the ultimate knock-down righting moment.
If the flagpole is made of an alloy which brings its yield strength up over 800-900kpm, I would be inclined to try it (if it isn’t too expensive). The British junkies have sailed around for decades with very slim mast profiles and (mostly) got away with it. I think it is better to use a bigger section with thinner walls. These are stiffer, and quite light. I might give the mast a 0.3m tall grp bandage (10mm thick?) at the partners (And mast step?) to reduce the risk of buckling the rather thin-walled section. Can’t hurt.
What is the diameter of that pole at mast top level?
Arne
PS: Again, I haven’t double-checked my calculations, so better look over them.