Gary,
there are the short gybes and the long ones.
I did a lot of long gybes in both Malena and Johanna. The procedure is to first square out the sail to 90° and then throw the tiller over and quickly round up over the gybing point. This ensures that the wind will grip all the sail from bottom to top simultaneously. In other words, the whole sail gybes at the same time. If you have a tidy cockpit so the sheet doesn’t catch anything, this gybe will be totally without stress in the rig.
Now, as you have seen, the long gybe takes up quite some space and also takes some time as you have to turn about 90° and back again. Then, if you have some reefs in the sail, there is the added chance of getting a fan-up.
In strong winds, if gybing seems too scary, I rather tack the boat around. I have done that many times in Malena and Johanna. This of course takes even more time.
I guess, in a 3-panel wind or stronger, offshore, I would rather drop the sail, then reset the windvane for the new course, and then just gybe the bundle, and finally re-hoist the little scrap of sail.
On my much smaller Frøken Sørensen (20sqm), solely used for inshore sailing, I generally make short gybes. I do so simply because the sheet forces are so light that I can easily manage. The procedure is to first set the tiller brake to gently swing the boat past the gybing point. Then I have both hands free to quickly haul in all I can on the sheet. As we gybe, I quickly let out the sheet through my gloved hands and reset the rudder to stop the swing. This is a quick method which doesn’t take up much space (much of my sailing is in confined waters).
Your Redwing is about as big as my Malena was. I guess, if you let the sheet pass over a snubber winch, and also fit a tiller brake, you could easily make the quicker short gybes with this boat as well.
Good luck,
Arne