Hi Thierry,
I'm using a 'Hammerlock' connector at the end of our 8mm chain, to connect the chain to a big shackle without having to use a shackle small enough for its pin to fit through the link.
It could be used in the middle of a chain, as it fits through the links. Smooth enough to hand over a gypsy or so without catching your hand or glove. Stronger than chain! Not galvanised, but resistant to rusting.
It is rated to break at 8 Tonnes. Cost ~NZ$70
Our new Maggi Aqua7 chain is rated to break at 7 T. It's starting to get rusty after a little over a year living on anchor.
Our 5/8" nylon 3-strand rope is rated to break at 5.5 T.
I had a couple of things tested to destruction by Cookes here in New Zealand:
Our twice-regalvanised 5/16" Acco chain broke at 5.5 T.
A 2-piece peened connecting link, stainless, not Crosby, broke at 3.07 T.
The Crosby equivalent was rated to break at 3.5 T.
Good luck.
Kurt