Thanks for all the advice so far.
After much thought and some changes of plan, I think the following is the direction I will take, and I would like to run this proposal past the experts, hoping to be informed if there are any bugs I have overlooked.
1. The mast will be 11m over all, keel stepped, 9.2m above partners.
2. Basic mast will be a standard 6m length of alloy tube, .152mm in diamater and 5mm wall thickness. (6.251 kg/m = 37.5kg)
3. It will be augmented at the top by 4.5m cut from a tapered aluminium flagpole which I have, the parallel part being 120mm diameter and wall thickness (as measured) 3.8mm. (Estimated 3.85 kg/m = 17.33kg.) 0.5m of the flagpole will be inserted into the standard aluminium pole, thus augmenting the length by a nett 4m.
4. The mast will also be augmented at the base by a 1.4m length of 6" x 6" square section solid douglas fir, (estimated weight 17kg). The top .4m of this section will be shaped round and inserted into the base of the standard aluminium pole, thus adding 1 metre of length at the base.
5. The detail of the join at the top section of the mast will be as follows: the lower part of the flagpole will be sleeved with a layer of glass-reinforced epoxy, to a thickness of about 1cm, to make it a loose fit into the standard aluminium pole. The sheathed part will be prepared with the etch primer provided by West system for bonding epoxy to aluminium. This sheath will continue sufficiently far up the flagpole to allow the necessary taper to transit the two diameters, and additional expoxy filler will be added to fair out the remaining 5mm shoulder. The flagpole with its sheathed lower end will be fitted into the standard aluminium pole and fastened with flexible adhesive (eg Simpsons.)
6. Likewise the wooden base piece will be given a coating of epoxy resin, then inserted into the lower part of the standard aluminium pole and fastened with Simpsons or similar.
The result will be an 11m mast weighing just over 70 kg.
1m wood, 6m pole, 4m tapered flagpole
Click on diagram below for further details.
To compare with the existing bermudan deck-stepped mast - the part of the new mast which is above the partners will be 9.2m, should weigh less than 50kg and the centre of gravity of that part should be about 4.11m above the partners.
This compares more than favourably with the original deck-stepped 8.95m untapered bermudan mast which is estimated to weigh more than 56 kg (not counting spreaders and rigging) and whose centre of gravity is about 4.6m above the partners. (It is currently stepped on the aft cabin top, some .1m higher than where the new mast partner will be.)
The top section seems a bit light to me, but I think I should make use of what I have.
The biggest unknown will be, as David has pointed out, the discontinuity with respect to flexing at the reinforced part of the topmast. I can only assume that it will be not very different to the detail of timber topmast (as in Fantail) which seems to have proved itself satisfactory in practice. How well epoxy will stick to aluminium under these circumstances, and the efficacy of West Systems' aluminium etch primer will be interesting to find out too.
Any comments would be gratefully accepted.