I recognise the phenomenon that Ketil describes - the sail I used from 2001 to 2004 had a slug slide fastened to the throat with webbing, and eventually, it showed signs of very heavy wear. That's part of the reason that I'm now using and recommending a throat hauling parrel that passes through a single block attached to the yard, so that the load from the throat hauling parrel bypasses the attachment of the sail to the yard.
But I don't think the throat is more heavily loaded than the peak, in the direction perpendicular to the yard. If there were just a bolt rope at each end, no sailcloth, then clearly if the halyard and yard hauling parrel are in the centre of the yard, there must be equal perpendicular forces on the yard at either end, for equilibrium. Add a flat-cut top panel, and under light loads, there must be an approximately even distribution of perpendicular forces along the yard. Under higher loads, the yard must flex, the leech and luff tending to slacken, and the load must become more concentrated in the centre, limiting the load on the yard. This all results in an excruciatingly badly setting top panel. That's why I add some rounding to the head, 1 - 2%. Then the loading changes to something between uniform loading and two equal end loads, and yes, a cambered top panel does need a stiffer, stronger yard than a flat top panel - but it's too hard to calculate exactly how much stiffer and stronger. Two equal end loads stress the yard twice as much as a uniformly distributed load, but an intermediate case is virtually incalculable.
I think we tend to think that the peak is more heavily loaded, and fasten it more strongly, but that the throat is not so heavily loaded, and fasten it not strongly enough.
I think both should be equally strongly fastened to the yard.
If a span is used, and tied to a thimble that is shackled to the halyard block, it effectively does the job of the drift between the two halyard blocks. It twists as the sail is squared off, so that the blocks themselves and the parts of the halyard between them do not have to twist. I hoist my halyard "two-blocks" under full sail, and am not seeing any adverse effects, because I have a span which is one third of the yard's length. Excessive twisting of the parts of the halyard destroys the halyard blocks and the halyard; it doesn't have any effect on the yard.