The halyard tackle, fixed as usual to the middle of the yard, must have enough drift such that when the yard goes to +/- 90 degrees, the rope doesn't make too great an angle with the sheaves of the blocks, otherwise damage will result. When a span is used at the yard end of the tackle, some extra freedom is allowed the lower block, as the span itself can twist a bit, as well as whatever rotational freedom there may be in the shackle and thimble. This means that the block to block distance when a span is used can be somewhat shorter than when a direct yard connection is used.
When making the design, I would first mark the points at the one third and two thirds points of the yard, and also at the centre. I would then draw a line from the two thirds point to intersect with a line from the masthead block to the centre of the yard, such that the angle between the yard and this first line is 30 degrees. Then draw another line from the one thirds point to this intersection, and this will be the shape of the span that you are aiming for. Then allow let's say five times the length of the halyard block for the tackle - two blocks plus the length of three blocks between them. I have found this to be enough drift.
I tie an alpine butterfly knot (which can take a load in two directions) in the 6mm Dyneema at the intersection point, large enough that a full turn can be taken around the bow of the shackle on the lower halyard block. I tried a stainless steel thimble here, but it soon failed due to fatigue. The 6mm Dyneema should be tied right around the yard at the one third and two thirds points, with a strong eye just to keep them from sliding, not to carry the load.
I use Dyneema for my lifts as well. I would use 6mm for yours. I tie two forward lift lines halfway down the topping lifts (to an alpine butterfly again) one on each side and lead the line on the mast side to the bottom batten/boom at the after end of the batten parrel, and the line line on the other side to a point level with the mast line. Actually, a span at the bottom of this latter line will help with gathering the bunt of cloth here.
The reason for doing the forward lifts in this way is twofold. It stops the annoying clatter from a lift that is parallel to and close to the mast; and more importantly, it brings the line of the topping lifts further forward. With the weaverbird planform of sail, I have found that a gybe with three panels up is safe enough without this form of forward lift, but a gybe with two panels up risks getting the yard trapped behind the topping lifts. This planform of sail seems to be much less prone to misbehaving during a wild weather gybe than the HM kind; but there is still a risk, even when the yard has a light extension to bring it to the same length as the lower battens (essential). Moving the topping lifts forward is the cure.