Thank you all!
Everyone is so welcoming and showing a warm interest in my little boat - really quite exceptional and very encouraging because I am not very mathematical or technical when it comes to the details. Good to meet you Jami and yes, having now had a look at the pictures of the Joe 17 I think we are looking at very similar projects.
I re-read an article by Michael Rogers, who is a JRA member I think, as well as being in the Dinghy Cruising Association. He created a very simple unstayed mast for his dinghy and had two tubes that slot together. Short stubby bit stays fixed to the boat then longer bit slots into it. All very simple if your boat is small and light enough. He wrote that it came from Sunbird Marine. I'm not sure if my boat is small enough to have such a lightweight mast because I have quite a heavy keel.
Advice on the rig is all very welcome - thank you. I will look at your small scale design, David, when I have a moment - assuming it is on here somewhere. Also helpful to know that the sail I have superimposed would be too big! I had not realised I had increased the sail area so much - I just made it similar, in relation to the boat, to the little drawing in the Junk Rig for Beginners. Anyway I will consider all these suggestions.... My foredeck will need strengthening because already a weakness there. I am certain that it would not be strong enough with nothing underneath a tabernackle anyway. I really can't avoid the buoyancy tank on my boat, but no longer so worried about that so much. I think perhaps being happy with the sail plan and having the mast in exactly the right place is key - I'll keep looking into it.
Many thanks, again, for all your interest and welcomes.